tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4348277862674460847.post8282693601845184461..comments2023-03-29T01:50:37.142-07:00Comments on A Tall Glass of Shame: Current MoodZackihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16186008655927025927noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4348277862674460847.post-32589889440947029372008-11-11T08:12:00.000-08:002008-11-11T08:12:00.000-08:00B/c I tend to talk too much, too, I made a rule th...B/c I tend to talk too much, too, I made a rule that whenever I was feeling queasy about a new relationship, I talked to my friends about it and not to the guy -- at least until we've had the BF/GF talk -- which he needed to initiate. I'm really insecure, so this passive possum plan worked well, b/c I'm just the kind of person that needs to know that a guy is into me, because he says so voluntarily -- not because I ask him.<BR/><BR/>But make sure that you're not being too hard on yourself. How long have you two been dating? There's a difference between getting the answers that you need and talking "too soon." Having dated A LOT before I got married, I was really surprised to find that when it's right, it's fairly straightforward and simple. He likes you and you like him consistently and for awhile. That's all. I wished I had learned to relax and just accept that all of my relationships wouldn't work out until one did earlier. Dating would've been a lot more fun if I had. :)<BR/><BR/>Hope this answer wasn't too long.Ernessa T. Carterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17765310225042942524noreply@blogger.com